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Hello everyone! My name is Alexander, I'm a psychologist and Gestalt therapist🤓. I've been practicing since 2017 💬 — I help with difficult situations, crises, searches, and changes🌪. I'm a friendly psychologist, and my clients include LGBTQIA+ individuals, couples, and polyamorous relationships. 🎓Studied at Moscow State Pedagogical University - psychology (bachelor's) and social psychology (master's), Moscow Gestalt Institute - accredited and certified Gestalt therapist.
Александр Харитонов
Nov 24, 20251 min read


Why the boundaries does not work if you set them out of fear?
We often perceive boundaries as hard "no"—as a line we must draw to avoid being hurt, exploited, or destroyed. But if you listen closely to the moment when that "no" bursts forth, it becomes clear: it's not an adult's choice, it's a reaction to internal anxiety. It's not about clarity, it's about fear. A boundary set out of fear doesn't actually protect. It isolates. It's an attempt to sever contact, not maintain it. And outwardly, it may look right: you distance yourself, yo
Александр Харитонов
Nov 24, 20251 min read
The disclosure of immigration
Sometimes I realize I no longer have anchors. Nothing dramatic — just that nothing feels fixed anymore. Places, people, language — all temporary. I seem steady from the outside, even composed. But inside there’s constant adjustment, a quiet calibration to stay aligned. It ’s not anxiety — more like the fatigue of continuous translation: of myself, of context, of tone. Immigration, maybe, is life without a stable point of balance. Not escape, not search — just movement between
Александр Харитонов
Oct 30, 20251 min read


Группа «Грани идентичности»
Мы с Александр Харитонов приглашаем на терапевтическую группу “Грани Идентичности”.
Гештальт-терапия работает с разными запросами: сексуальн
Александр Харитонов
Jul 5, 20231 min read
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